DOMestic Bdsm and Female Domination

I have truly a good sub who tries hard but sometimes slips and I
find myself enjoying punishing him although I'm having to let go
of some lingering feelings that make me worry that I'm going to
cross a line. Maybe I just haven't learned that I can trust
myself yet. But I love whipping, I love seeing my subs ass red
and hot. I love hearing him moan and whimper at my touch.

Sometimes I like using hot wax as a punishment, I see ice more
of an enjoyment thing. But really as far as the electro-play
goes, I've never done it but I've always just loved electricity
and always wanted to try it but I want it done on me.

My sub is one of those that enjoys pain and enjoys pushing his
limits and challenging himself. Also one thing that we're hoping
to use this lifestyle to help with is for him to lose some
weight, he's not really heavy but he wants to lose about 20 lbs.
I have a lot of ideas for this but I was wondering if the group
has any experience to go off of.

Ashen and the slut Soma