She comes first
posted by: Shoekisser
posted on: Sun, 03 Aug 2008 16:21:16 +0000
Last night, after 51 years (exactly) of marriage, I had an
epiphany. During a rare love-making session, I satisfied her
first. Then, despite the recollection of numerous DOMestic
stories, and femdom scenes, both real and imagined, I couldn't
climax. So, I finally did the proper, submissive, feminine
thing....
I FAKED AN ORGASM. To my surprise, there was no feeling of
frustration, just the marvelous sensation that this is the way
it is supposed to be. My purpose in life is to take care of her
needs, and disregard mine.
This morning I feel fulfilled and not horny at all. I hope it
lasts.
Shoekisser
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Replies
Posted by: Anoush | link | edited and published August 4, 2008 2:42 PM
You're joking, right? When did faking an orgasm become the
proper submissive thing to do?
If dishonesty is what your relationship is based on and it works
for you, great - but don't think that's the "submissive" thing
to do.
Posted by: shoekisser | link | edited and published August 5, 2008 8:31 PM
Anoush,
Well, in retrospect, it wasn't a very good fake. She knew
exactly what I was doing. I elected to give up, and just be
satisfied with satisfying her.
Is that submissive enough?
Shoekisser
Posted by: Anoush | link | edited and published August 6, 2008 1:21 PM
It's not for me to decide if you're being "submissive enough" -
that's up to your wife. My point was that faking something isn't
submissive, whether she saw through it or not (but I do realize
that perhaps she likes that sort of thing; one never knows about
other people).
The question that immediately came to mind on reading your first
post is: why do you feel the need to mention faking an orgasm
(never mind actually *doing* it) when the point of your post is
apparently about putting your wife's needs before your own and
feeling good about it? If you're faking to get there, it's not
submissive; if it comes from the heart, it is.