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DQ wrote:

>For extended wear of a penis plug

For prolonged wear, most users seem to agree that shorter is
better. Smaller sizes seem to stay in longer. But regardless of
that, I would not advocate extended wear of anything in or on
the penis without first trying it for shorter periods to get
used to your own tolerance.

Use lots of lube!

While experimenting for short periods you are in control of the
process so that if you feel pain you can back away.

>can the plug be longer than the length of a
>flaccid penis

I would say that is not sensible. If you are wearing it under
clothing then having a bit sticking out of the end because it is
too long to go all the way in, would present a safety hazard.
What if your position, activity, or clothing tended to thrust
the plug further in than is wise?

>or will that cause damage if too long?

Well yes, if it is "too long" it would obviously be more likely
to cause damage than if it were the right length for you.

A shorter plug that includes a ring to hold it in place would be
one way of achieving retention rather than increasing the risk
via width or length.

Something that is too rigid, too long, or too slim can increase
your risk of damage just as much as using something too thick.
Listen to the feedback your body gives you in your first
experiments, and take it slow. Pain is a message to tell you to
stop immediately.

If you are looking for long term wear then you are clearly going
to choose a hollow one which allows you to urinate, described as
"cum thru" or "pee thru". Read the user feedback on such devices
on independent web sites. (not just toy sellers)

Things to watch out for are any kind of irregularities in the
surface of the plug. While a short flexible silicone plug may be an
obvious choice for many, there are reports that some cheaper
versions have seams down the sides which will irritate or worse.

See these two negative reports on Amazon of how devices can
prove to be unsuitable here:-

http://amzn.to/22hUw3F

and here:-

http://amzn.to/22hUKIa

One of those reports describes the plug in question as being
like a tire gripping the road. You don't want that!

When you can keep adding lots more lube a sterile water based
lubricant is the choice for play purposes. But you can find over
longer periods without your lubricating interventions that the
plug will dry out, making the removal tricky.

So you may want to experiment with a surgical quality stainless
steel plug that can be used with a small quantity of sterile
medical grade Vaseline. An oil based lubricant in combination
with a steel plug may prove less likely to adhere in long term
usage.

Before inserting your steel plug, test it, by passing it across a
ladies stocking or silk handkerchief, to see if it snags
anywhere. If it snags a stocking, think what damage it will do
internally. And you don't want that either!

I've posted links here/below to items that you may want to
consider.

have fun and play safe,
David

Download "Prickteasing" by David

Stainless Steel Urethra Plug and Penis Ring - Hollow

Urethral Stretching Penis Plug - Stainless Steel