Slave's Treat

The beautiful Queen I serve told me over a week ago that I could
expect a treat on Saturday.

It was the Tuesday before, and being full of impatience and
awaiting the treat which I knew would be a prolonged session
submitting to my Queen's will, I secretly masturbated, not
telling my Queen what I had done.

# Re: C: Sentinel Chastity belt
# Re: C: Am I sub/cuckold? Or Is she Dom?
# P: serve a beautiful dominant English Female
# S: Serving Her - part two

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Do You have an overwhelming desire to serve a beautiful dominant
English Female?

Do You wish to be told what to do and what not to do purely for
its own sake? Do you wish to obey a Mistress's orders? Do You
wish to feel inferior? Do you wish to retain your privacy?

Serving Her - part two (see part one)

The first strike catches my ass dead center. "One, thank you
Mistress" (I must always count and thank Mistress for each
stroke or the punishment begins again.) Two, a little higher.
Three, Higher. Four, low across my cheeks just above my legs.
Five, same place.

Six, same place again. I jerk forward and bang my chastity
device against the sofa. God what pain! Seven, high again. Eight
across the middle of my thighs. Nine, still on my legs. Ten,
hard across my lower ass. My god I don't know how to take two
more.

# C: Sentinel Chastity belt
# Re: C: cuckolding ideas?
# C: She comes first
# Re: C: She comes first x 3
# S: Serving Her
# Re: S: Serving Her

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Last night, after 51 years (exactly) of marriage, I had an
epiphany. During a rare love-making session, I satisfied her
first. Then, despite the recollection of numerous DOMestic
stories, and femdom scenes, both real and imagined, I couldn't
climax. So, I finally did the proper, submissive, feminine
thing....

Dear Domestic readers and Ms Christine,

Recently my boy and I purchased a Sentinel Chastity belt.
Wonderful it looks. It has a metal casing and ring. We were
really looking forward to moving our chastity play up to the
next level.

However we have now decided to cut that journey short at least
with this CB as he is having major difficulties with it. As long
as he sits still it is ok but as soon as he moves he finds
pieces of skin being grabbed by the CB and or, as he describes
it, the metal poking like needles into his penis head.

I am a submissive male located in the Northern Florida/Southern
Georgia area. I am accustomed to harsh dominance and have
recently been released from a very strict domme. I am seeking
another to serve. I hope you enjoy the following story. I dabble
in a erotic writing concerning female domination.

# Re: C: Topping from the bottom a dead end
# Re: C: An understanding wife?
# Re: C: cuckolding ideas?
# Re: C: how to be dominant for a generous guy?
# C: cock humiliation - virtual castration
# P: Good trained balanced submissive in California
# Re: W: controlling male masturbation with high heels

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i like cock humiliation because i have a very small penis, under
2 inches in erection. I hope that somebody understands my
request. I'd like to find a woman who can watch and humiliate my
penis on this forum. Could you help me?

i am a 38yr male slave from chennai dying to serve you as your
personal slave. please be free to use me any way you want
including as your human toilet.

your slave
arun

As an example, we have been on vacation and on one evening she
had a man come to our hotel room for a session of love making. I
was not allowed to be in the room but was called in before he
left. She told me that He wanted to say 'good bye' to me. I had
very mixed feelings. I was happy because she was happy. I was
allowed to masturbate so that in itself made me feel good.

Last evening, we were on our last nite of our vacation and she
looked so seductive and I attempted to make love to her. She
resisted and said she was tired. I know she wanted sex, but
said, 'you don't satisfy me. I want to save myself for someone
that can.' I know that very soon she will make a date with a boy
friend. I feel very disappointed now. It is very hard to wait
for those moments when she is happy. But I feel very happy when
they do come.

While I am not familiar with that particular belt, most
manufactures will address any production issues (such as burrs
or other issues) if you contact them.

Super A

is it a pleasure to see your wife getting fucked?

You can also read about our real life femdom experience at:-
Femdom Couple

The question that immediately came to mind on reading your first
post is: why do you feel the need to mention faking an orgasm
(never mind actually *doing* it) when the point of your post is
apparently about putting your wife's needs before your own and
feeling good about it? If you're faking to get there, it's not
submissive; if it comes from the heart, it is.

Well, in retrospect, it wasn't a very good fake. She knew
exactly what I was doing. I elected to give up, and just be
satisfied with satisfying her.

Is that submissive enough?

Shoekisser

If dishonesty is what your relationship is based on and it works
for you, great - but don't think that's the "submissive" thing
to do.

So far I have not had the privilege of being humiliated by her
lovers, but we have the possibility of that happening soon. She
has been corresponding with a man who is planning to use her and
'allow the bitch to suck his cum from her ass'. She is really
turned on at the prospect.

She is really happy now that she has more than one lover. In
fact, she hugged me yesterday and thanked me for helping her
find her lovers. Things have been really great lately. Would
love to hear from any of you about your experiences with
cuckolding.

Yes. I still often masturbate, kneeling and begging using the
VERY soft stroking method. Sometimes I set the mood by lighting
a candle and kneeling on a small pillow before finding a picture
of sexy shoes to follow the ritual to. I think the impact has
been long lasting, I have a sexy shoe fetish and barefoot fetish
now! I have an orgasm denial fetish too. I also occasionally ask
my partners for permission to cum after they had been pleasured
first!

I think i did go a bit further in the ritual, but I am
forgetting now. I also was part of the email "group" that you
transferred to another on line mistress.

Oh, of course, the file was named wanker!

Forgive me for not asking You about it directly. I honestly
thought you had no interest in talking about it.

I think one of the biggest turn ons for me over the years was
knowing how David was punished for ejaculating without
permission with your cane. It both helped me keep my spurt
inside, or i might suffer the same fate! and it helped me feel
both submissive and aroused while my release was denied!

There is a risk, though. Sometimes she will be all but "fucked-
out". In which case I am left to view her swollen and untidy
body while I service myself.

Bo

Madam, I can imagine your fun with "Harold" and am pretty sure
he was having a lot of fun himself, although of a somewhat
different kind.

In the course of my research on "money slaves" I was really
astonished by the vast number of internet sites devoted - in
part or exclusively - to money slavery, all looking and sounding
(reading) pretty much the same, as though they were all copying
each others. That got me to wonder how much (or how little)
money any of those dozens of women could really make. The
business seems flourishing, so that would seem to suggest that
active money slaves are much more numerous than one might
imagine.

One would think that giving money and gifts to a woman who gives
absolutely nothing back in exchange and whom the giver will
probably never even meet is a very rare perversion. Apparently
it isn't and that keeps me puzzled.

Three male members of the French D/s group on which I started
the discussion have come out stating they are or have been money
slaves, and have agreed to answer my questions.

The most interesting (and intelligent) of the three stated that
he has had two such relationships, one lasting two years and a
half. He never met the woman (although she lived nearby) and
never even talked to her on the phone either.

He estimated that he spent about half of his income on her.
Although he was able to pay all his own bills, he couldn't save
any money or spend anything on leisure or entertainment for
himself. [another guy wasn't as careful: sometimes he had to
skip lunch and had trouble paying his rent.]

According to him, the woman had another, or several other, money
slaves when he first got in touch with her, but gradually
dropped them until he remained the only one, of which he was
very proud. After a while (several months of "building
confidence") he gave her direct access to his bank account and
credit card. He claimed that she was not particularly demanding,
and that in fact she didn't really need the money - which made
it all the more exciting for him.

In answer to one of my questions, he said that he would love to
live with the woman in a D/s - kind of relationship with her in
possession of all his money. The reasons why the relationship
ended are not quite clear, as this young man (he is in his mid
thirties) has a rather oblique and convoluted way of expressing
himself. In the course of our discussion he asked me if I would
like for him to become my money slave. He seemed quite serious.
Of course I said that was completely out of the question.
However I have been wondering whether I might offer him to give
money not to me (I don't need it either) but to some of my
favorite charities (it's more a fantasy than a serious project,
though).

I wonder if anybody on DOMestic is interested in discussing
money slavery (it has various different names) and whether there
are members who are money slaves and would like to explain why
they do it and what satisfaction they derive from it.

Michele

i just wanted to add to this that "herslaveboy" above has some
good points, primarily that you are really thinking all about
yourself and probably making your wife feel very judged and
criticized.

a great example is when she was stressed about her surgery and
you wanted to choose that time to tell her she wasn't doing a
good job as a Dom?!? that is just as selfish as some "normal"
man telling his wife that she isn't being a good wife because
she doesn't want sex at that time!

"herslaveboy" is also right that there might be a lot of
potential here if you could stop making her feel so judged. i
definitely think you should take "herslaveboy's" points very
very seriously.

HOWEVER i would also caution that "herslaveboy" talks a lot
about his own personal experience and the exact terms of his
relationship with his Goddess, and you should definitely be
aware that every D/s relationship has its own shape, its own
contours, its own terms. you and your wife both need to explore
your own deepest desires and learn how to create satisfaction
for both of you - not based on something you read in a book or
saw in a movie, but something that you both want and enjoy.
that's a cooperative, loving process, not a whining, begging,
cajoling process.

i actually think it sounds like you might need to work on your
vanilla relationship first. it doesn't sound like you have very
good communication or trust, and it actually sounds like she
really is not very much able to assert her needs and desires
(since you keep telling her what they should be).

communication, trust, articulating needs - those are vanilla-
level skills. you need those skills before you can progress to
d/S. i would recommend that you see a counselor together and
agree to put all d/S talk on hold for one year while you try to
improve your bedrock marriage and develop these basic skills.

i just want to point out one more option, which probably most
women would reject, but i'll just put it out there. i am also
married to a woman - have been in a lesbian relationship for 16
years. we are deeply in love and have a fantastic sex life with
occasional 3ways with men. one of these men brought out the sub
in me and became my Master, and that is also a very intense,
intimate relationship. he is also married and has a great
sex/love life with his wife, and the four of us hang out as
friends and lovers. our wives don't mind the Master/sub
relationship at all because we always prioritize the wives.
neither of us wants a 24/7 D/s situation so this is perfect for
us.

just putting that out there to say, there are lots of different
alternatives to getting what you want and need.

Vickie - i guess i was worried i was "getting" Her to do things
already and didn't want to lead the way... it seems to be
working and i suppose it's for the best as she is very new to
this.

Peter - thanks! i am indeed having fun in the lifestyle and in a
vanilla sense.

Mark - thank you, i have often felt it is neither black nor
white... has to have balance. We do talk quite a bit... perhaps
too much as it worries her that our vanilla side may suffer...
she doesn't want a doormat nor a completely dom/sub
relationship.

That being said we usually end up in our skivvies when we talk
about it as it makes us both quite... well you know :)

thanks for your input

Madam - thank you so much, i did just that (its my nature
anyway) and yesterday she came home with a dog collar, a padded
toilet seat and a crop! All new toys for her and quite different
from her previous experiences... so yes she is doing just fine
and by crikey so am i.. i could not be happier.

Yes she would never have thought of these things on her own...
honestly if you knew her she wouldn't have... and our play has
brought this out in her for good or ill who's to say... but if
there was ever anyone who deserved a willing worshipper it was
her and i sure am glad it's me that has the honour

jonnyboy