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my personal writings - Priestess Avril

View Thread started on June 17, 2009 11:20 AM| Replies (2)

I suggest you depilate him and begin hand training him i.e. male
milking and masturbation as rewards for submitting to your
desires, also use or instil fetishes in him eventually if
desired.

View Thread started on June 7, 2009 1:38 AM| Replies (3)

zapped and padlocked balls software resuscitated

View Thread started on June 21, 2009 4:43 PM| Replies (3)

Hello Timmie,

>Why wouldn't the old version work?

You didn't answer my questions on your operating system, browser
version, and anti virus - so my guess is that you are running XP
and IE8.

We test the program on all major browsers and operating systems,
but it seems that there is one configuration of AV, security
settings, and browser which cause the browser to lock local
files from running. This, David tells me is because IE8 on XP is
less than totally secure, so the fix from Microsoft is to lock
certain local files rather than fix the operating system.

Although we were unable to replicate the error on our own
version of Vista, David was able to install a particular AV
program on an XP system which reports suggested exacerbated the
issue, and then he managed to track down the bug in the XP OS
and IE8 browser combination and create a work-around which fixes
it. He was cursing and sighing for a few days in his office!

While I'm answering your questions, you also asked:-

>Remember those awesome stories from Bill?

Yes, indeed. And we are much saddened that Bill's artistic and
creative flow has ceased. (Where are you Bill? Still reading
DOMestic?)

Bill's stories are still available for members to read again at:-

http://www.mschristine.com/DOMestic/sb.htm

>I have cut the grass!

Is that both indoor and outdoor?

>Of all the sites on the web you seem to be the most genuine

Thank you Timmie. I don't see a lot of other sites myself, but
those that I do see are often not to my taste.

>it would be lovely to see more "believable" stories about TRUE
>domestic femdom experiences that I am so Bl--dy lucky to have.

You've started the ball rolling (excuse any puns that may be
there) let's hope you keep it up (oops there I go again!) and
send in more of your experiences. If not, then let's hope that
others follow suit and, like you, tell us how they are doing Fem-
Dom at home.

sincerely,
Christine at Ms-Christine.com

Support DOMestic. Renew / Get your password at:-
http://www.mschristine.com/domsub4.shtml#card

View Thread started on July 1, 2009 11:22 PM| Replies (3)

Hi

That was an incredibly speedy response. Many thanks.

And yes, it now works! I shall look into it and see what
differences there are. Why wouldn't the old version work?

For your information - we are now in femdom mode and I am now
locked up - my wife is a medic and on nights for the next three
nights and - yes - I have cut the grass!

Of all the sites on the web you seem to be the most genuine - it
would be lovely to see more "believable" stories about TRUE
domestic femdom experiences that I am so Bl--dy lucky to have.

regards

Timmie

View Thread started on July 1, 2009 11:22 PM| Replies (3)

Hello Timmie,

I'll send the latest version now which David assures me will
solve your problems. Please let me know how you get on. Also
please let me know the operating system, browser version, and
anti virus you are running.

sincerely,
Christine at Ms-Christine.com

The Fem Dom Training Software.
Advises on how best to train your husband/lover.
http://www.mschristine.com/program.shtml

View Thread started on July 1, 2009 11:22 PM| Replies (3)

johnny wrote with elegance:

>"I am a handsome male, 45, 6'1", 185, athlete, and I desire a
>woman who will command me to perform sex acts on her, I
>especially want to please a woman by rimming her ass hole with
>my tongue. Please let me know if you are into this."

Ladies, with a little work he could be not entirely useless.

When you're finished training him he'd be able to somersault
through a hoop, hump your leg on the fly, and finish with a
perfect landing, face first in the cleft of your derriere where
he'd be stuck - tongue thankfully still able to service Mistress
and at great risk to himself - being unable to breathe for
several hours.

It's the life we've envisioned.

View Thread started on June 18, 2009 8:11 PM| Replies (1)

The CB2000 did not work for my slave and myself. Due to his
large size, it kept breaking and cracking, so we had to return
it 4 different times.

I would not suggest this be used by a man who has a nice or
large size package.

My slave now wears a tube. It is wonderful, I am just so sorry
that they do not make them any more. The only problem he has had
is when he goes to court, he has to take it off, so that the
metal detector does not go off.

Hope this helps.

Sincerely

Ms. Irish owner of slave jimmie

View Thread started on June 17, 2009 11:20 AM| Replies (2)

David and Christine,

I want to tell you both how wonderfully overwhelmed I am by your
response to my problem. It is so refreshing to receive this kind
of "customer support". Thank you so very much!

I uninstalled the old FD Training program, deleted all traces of
it, installed the new software from the zip file you sent, and
voila! Success!

I spent about 20 minutes browsing around the new program with
absolutely no problems.

One last big THANK YOU to you both for your emails. I do very
much appreciate your time. Please feel free to post my email and
please post the following comment:

To anyone that has considered, or is considering, the purchase
of Ms. Christine's FemDom Training Program, I can tell you from
personal experience that it will provide you with many hours of
entertainment, education, and titillating ideas, whether you are
with or without a partner. I am currently not in a relationship
but my imagination runs wild dreaming of a Mistress using the
program to train me!

Hugs,
Paul

View Thread started on June 21, 2009 4:43 PM| Replies (3)

Hello Paul,

After our off list conversations over the last few days, I'm
sending you a copy of the latest version (3.2) which we
completed today which should solve the problem.

I've changed more than 350 files in this version in a way which
will get IE8 on your system to accept the FemDom Training
Program as secure.

Let me know please.

sincerely,
David at Ms-Christine.com

FemDom Training Program

View Thread started on June 21, 2009 4:43 PM| Replies (3)

The follow up by Priestess Avril is at:-

Real life Fem Dom

View Thread started on April 10, 2008 9:20 PM| Replies (8)

The follow up by Priestess Avril is at:-

he is rethinking slavery

View Thread started on February 20, 2007 4:21 AM| Replies (6)

Ashley wrote:

>any suggestions on making my sub hubby stay nude at home?

Lockable shoes. Connect them with a chain or whatever and he
can't put any pants on.

View Thread started on June 7, 2009 1:38 AM| Replies (3)

Hello,

chastitize wrote:

>elsie sutton

I think it likely that you mean "elise" not "elsie"

It may help stretchjdh if you explain further.

Why not tell us what you actually learned from any particular
web site, and how you put what you learned into action. What did
your partner like when you did it, and how did she react?

sincerely,
David

Download "Games People Play" by David at
http://www.mschristine.com/manual.shtml

View Thread started on June 14, 2009 5:11 PM| Replies (2)

Hi stretchjdh take a look at elsie sutton website it help me to
turn my wife into the Mistress/Key Holder I desired.

View Thread started on June 14, 2009 5:11 PM| Replies (2)

For those who have asked in the past. Fictionmania is back:

www.fictionmania.tv/enter.html

View Thread started on November 14, 2008 6:45 PM| Replies (5)

Tom,

Contact me privately.

Super A

supera@iaxs.net
email address info

View Thread started on June 7, 2009 5:57 PM| Replies (4)

Hello,

j boy wrote:

>we purchased a birdlocked ourselves -snip- it is very easy to
>pull out of -snip- I haven't tried to get back in but i'd wager
>i could.

You sound a lot like me j boy. For me a chastity belt would have
to be both escape proof and comfortable, which I'm inclined to
think is a contradiction in terms. Especially for certain body
types.

Failing those two requirements, it would have to be impossible
to get back into after escaping, so that one is "caught" by
being out of it at inspection time.

However, Christine would find the latter unsatisfactory. If she
locked me up she would like to know that she could safely forget
all about the matter until I came to her and begged for release.
She would be very angry if she was waiting for the begging,
confident in my imprisonment, and all along I was free but
hadn't owned up to it. She would feel tricked!

The whole process thus becomes something potentially negative
between us, and bad for the relationship. So we decided that it
would be better no belt at all than one which sets up such
counter productive situations. Christine opted for questioning
and punishment as a better control mechanism.

We're still waiting to hear consistent reports of a belt which
satisfies her requirements, but meantime we can manage quite
well with our homemade "toys". If we want a belt that doesn't
satisfy all the requirements we have several homemade devices
which are adequate for "play" purposes and we don't need to
spend a fortune on more "toys".

>now looking for something more secure... perhaps a full belt.
>yes these are far more expensive but if i had bought a "cs 100"
>from "chastity steel" in the first place i would have spent the
>same as trying the others... or less since we are leaning that
>way now anyway

I saw one positive report by slaveplaydoh on DOMestic in May
2007 on the "chastity steel" belt.

As yours is the second mention I recall seeing here I did a
Google search for "chastity steel" today and a German language
site was number one in the results. I understand that site is
now the maker's web site, and that the site doesn't have an
English version.

So, if like me, some readers don't understand German, here is a
link that will, courtesy of Google, present a translation of the
site into English.

fetisch-felix.de - translated

This is not a recommendation or otherwise. I'm just providing
the translation link for those who want to see and read about
the product you mention.

>there are some review sites out there for the various types
>and styles

Yes, here is a Google link to various web sites which the
results seem to suggest offer some reviews both good and bad for
the "cs 100" from "chastity steel"

sincerely,
David at Ms-Christine.com

Download "Prickteasing" by David at
http://www.mschristine.com/manual.shtml

View Thread started on June 7, 2009 5:57 PM| Replies (4)

Hello,

Miss_Sarina wrote:

>Might be worth checking it out.

Thanks Miss Sarina, information is often requested on "retreats"
and Fem Dom vacations by folk reading DOMestic. So I was eager
to find out more. I took a look at the site and found very
little femdom retreat information in the public area, what there
is you'll find here.

To get further information one has to register, and that
requires both location and date of birth. As I'm not prepared to
give that information to any web site, I lied about my date of
birth.

The site asks for a lot more information, and I chose
"unspecified" wherever it was permitted.

At the end of the 3 stage process I got the following error...

"Mysql error: Duplicate entry '' for key 6"

Jboy - What information we have is as follows...

There are various sections in the right hand menu of the
DOMestic blog under "Vacations" where folk have posted reports
on their vacation experiences. They are listed as "Camping",
"Dungeon Rental", "Experiences", "Resorts - Retreats" and
"Things to Do". You might take a look at those for some info.

Amanece recommended "La Domaine in NY" after her visit in March
of 2008 and her post on that may interest you.

Also, before "Googling" any more of your heart away we suggest
starting at the site we host on our servers, which has a section
at:-

dungeonnet.com/weblinks/Rentals/

where folk can and do register links to their web sites for
retreats and the like. I can't recommend any myself, but it's a
good place to start looking.

As always, if anyone has more recommendations to send in they
are welcome here, especially if you've visited and enjoyed your
stay.

sincerely,
Christine at Ms-Christine.com

My FemDom manuals are at
http://www.mschristine.com/manual.shtml

View Thread started on June 10, 2009 6:40 PM| Replies (2)

I know that the Femdomsociety has a retreat, never been there
and not sure how good it is. It looks as if it is quite new.
Might be worth checking it out.

www.femdommesociety.com

View Thread started on June 10, 2009 6:40 PM| Replies (2)

Hi

we purchased a birdlocked ourselves, this was after purchasing
what we thought was a cb3000 but turned out to be a cheaper
imitation that cracked and crazed and after a session with duct
tape now gathers dust, (if you want to go this route i recommend
not trying to save a few dollars and buying direct from the
producer)

As for the birdlocked - though a little tricky getting on... it
is quite comfortable and my wife likes the look of it (bubblegum
pink) but depending on your anatomy it is very easy to pull out
of... and this was without adding lube for me.

If you are a little bigger girth wise a little lube would afford
you the same results i'm sure. I haven't tried to get back in
but i'd wager i could.

this has made chastity a lot less enjoyable for both of us and
am now looking for something more secure... perhaps a full belt.
yes these are far more expensive but if i had bought a "cs 100"
from "chastity steel" in the first place i would have spent the
same as trying the others... or less since we are leaning that
way now anyway.

though there are some review sites out there for the various
types and styles there is little easy to find and comprehensive
sites out there. your mileage may vary... but good luck to you!

jboy

View Thread started on June 7, 2009 5:57 PM| Replies (4)

I think you answer the question yourself.

Yes force him to do what you want, that is what he wants, to be
dominated by you and for you to be in total control of him. To
grant or deny his pleasure for good behaviour.

Come on Lady take him by balls and be firm with him!

View Thread started on June 7, 2009 1:38 AM| Replies (3)

Hello,

Tom Jones wrote:

>Saw a YouTube video of it, and it looks quite intriguing.

For anybody who is as paranoid about security as I am, (I will
not have Flash software on my system) you can convert any
YouTube videos to a more secure MP4 or FLV download version for
viewing with a media player. There are lots of services that do
this, I usually use savevid.com and download an MP4.

I Googled it and downloaded the YouTube video myself, and this
is the video link I created to an MP4 or FLV download.

Birdlocked MP4 video download

Birdlocked MP4/FLV choose video download type

sincerely,
David

poem by david

View Thread started on June 7, 2009 5:57 PM| Replies (4)

jboy's report on his quit smoking plan

My suggestions on the quit smoking plan idea

View Thread started on December 29, 2008 4:06 PM| Replies (1)

Hello jboy, femfan, and all,

jboy wrote of his smoking plan:

>grew to not fear and actually look forward to the caning.
>Perhaps i had an ulterior subconscious desire for the cane
>that i was unaware of and that was what drove me.

That is a danger.

I find what is needed to make a submissive like David enjoy such
a "game" at the same time as achieve my more serious goal, is a
plan that gives some milder "punishment" to keep him interested
and enjoying it, in addition to a "real punishment" for failure
to achieve a goal I wish to achieve.

When I've used similar strategies on David, if I really wanted
to change behaviour I had to escalate to the thick cane, and
increase the strokes to a level he genuinely could not endure.
Your partner might not be comfortable with going that far.

With regard to smoking, I think you would actually need to
desire to reduce (or quit) in order to work with the plan. If I
were applying this to David I would ensure he got a daily dose
of the thin canes and hand spanking as a warm up.

I'd probably start with something like ten of each every day, as
a "punishment" for smoking at all. It might be an increasing
dose for every week he continued to smoke to give him an
illusion of escalating "punishment" rather than letting him
think it is all just a way to play.

This would then be followed every day by the thick cane as an
additional punishment, (the real one), starting at one stroke
for every cigarette smoked in a 24 hour period.

My plan would further require a reduction of one cigarette every
day in the amount he smoked. Failure to achieve a reduction
would mean two strokes for every cigarette smoked.

Any increase in the amount smoked would escalate the thick cane
to 3 strokes per cigarette.

When, as we surely would, he got down to one cigarette a day.
Then I would need to decide whether the enjoyment he was getting
from that one cigarette, or indeed the enjoyment we were both
getting from the control ritual outweighed other considerations.

If our goal was smoking reduction then it would be hard to
reduce much further. Or indeed continue the ritual in the same
way. If the goal is quitting, we've then trapped ourselves into
a situation where the pleasure from the ritual of "pretending"
to punish with the light strokes disappears the moment he quits.

As I would have replaced one addiction (nicotine) with another
(punishment rituals), then before we ever got that far I would
need to have a plan in place which would ritualise daily milder
punishments and occasional more severe ones to achieve other
goals (or illusions of goals).

You wrote of your partner....

>she is fully enjoying the dominant role as well.

I'm so pleased to hear that and to read your impressive list of
things you've both achieved.

>you will find something that is, if not your fantasy right now,
>will become your fantasy in life that you can build on and grow
>with.

Well said. I couldn't have put it better.

And now to femfan, who started this thread.... regarding "In The
Bank Manager's Cupboard. Twenty-six" femfan wrote:

>As places to end a chapter go, that was just mean!

Thank you, I do try ;-)

>please, tell me your story and description of his humiliation
>beneath her with that gag doesn't end there!

No, it doesn't end, the suffering continues in part "twenty-
seven". Some things do come to he who waits :-)

>I love that everything I've fantasised about, you've done for
>real

Everything? I doubt that. But I've certainly done quite a bit
including having my David wear the face mask fitted with the
dildo gag while I enjoyed using it/him.

I enjoyed much of the rest of your post, so excuse me if I only
pick out an obvious area of deviance. :-)

>you ask whether I would be as happy if it were all about her
>rather than my fantasies

That was not quite the thrust of my question. I'm not in favour
of the idea that a relationship can be all about one partner. My
question was more directed to the idea that the fantasists in
relationships (of either sex) may need to compromise and create
new fantasies or adapt old ones so that they work better for
both parties.

>doing exactly what she wants, whenever she wants, indulging
>herself and exerting an absolute power over me with no regard
>to my feelings or desires - that is the element that elevates
>her to her all powerful position in the relationship.

Yes, that is one of the elements that is so exciting in fantasy
for some people, like my David and clearly yourself.
However.....

What may happen is that you'll adapt that for reality, either
because she doesn't want to be "all powerful" and have "no
regard" for you, or that you find yourself attracted to a
different person. Your future partner may actually want to have
both a high regard for you, and simultaneously have a high
regard for her own needs.

When you open up to a potential partner, as one day you must,
and tell her what you fantasise about, you may just scare off
your ideal partner if you offer her "absolute power". She may
only want a mutually agreed amount of power.

In such circumstances it is enjoyable to women like me to take
the role of one who has such absolute power, when I'm safe in
the knowledge that it is really a mutually agreed and mutually
agreeable power.

sincerely,
Christine

The Fem Dom Training Software.
Advises on how best to train your husband/lover.
http://www.mschristine.com/program.shtml

View Thread started on May 21, 2009 3:34 PM| Replies (9)

Hello again everyone,

Well i wanted to reply to this "in praise of" because I enjoyed
reading it.

I also remember posting about my quit smoking plan in which i
had promised to keep updated on progress.... i didn't because
there was none or little sadly.

Hmmm which first......

quit smoking plan;

Well it didn't work... i had thought it would, but nope.

It was an excel spreadsheet that increased my canings in
accordance with the amount smoked. My belief that it would work
stemmed from my fear of the cane.

But for one reason or another... actually many, what happened
was... my hesitant Dom couldn't bring herself to inflict the
necessary force required and more importantly the fearful sub
(me) grew to not fear and actually look forward to the caning.
Perhaps i had an ulterior subconscious desire for the cane that
i was unaware of and that was what drove me.

Suffice to say that it didn't work and we stopped... i still
smoke.

Yes fantasy is a wonderful thing. i still live in that land but
i am also entering real life land at the same time.

My wife, aside from the fact i plainly just adore her... has
lived almost her entire life as the typical submissive bible
belt abused woman.

When i came onto the scene i worshipped her (in accordance to my
fantasy/belief) in a way that was long overdue in my opinion. I
have shared my fantasies with her and she has embraced it more
or less and in her submissive way granted my desires.... yet in
doing so she has awakened her dominant side and no longer has to
hide this part.

She is still the doting wife (all those little things that
aren't so little in fact get done for me and that is something
that still makes me very uncomfortable... but one day at a time)
but she is fully enjoying the dominant role as well.

This green submissive woman has:

used me as furniture

as a toilet (not full but still exciting and enjoyed by both
parties)

used toys (she had never used a dildo in her life let alone one
that was strapped to someone's face or around her waist)

engaged in spankings floggings and canings

entertained the idea of cuckolding and regularly uses it as
pillow talk during sex

keeps me in chastity off and on

expects me to pleasure her and not have to reciprocate

If it weren't for the presence of children we would be much
farther along the road to a perfect road but that being said it
is a road that is scenic and wonderful to travel along with the
one that you adore. hmmm.... could i use the word road again?
road... yes i can!

I suppose what i am saying in my rambling (i haven't had a
coffee yet) kind of way is that don't stop trying, you will find
something that is, if not your fantasy right now, will become
your fantasy in life that you can build on and grow with.

i for one couldn't be happier, if i had lucked upon the fantasy
that i had in my mind before i fell in love i would be poorer
because of it. Thank god(dess) that i didn't and now have
something far far richer.

jboy

View Thread started on May 21, 2009 3:34 PM| Replies (9)

Why not put your story about your life on DOMestic. I would be
very interested in reading it.

View Thread started on April 26, 2009 8:46 PM| Replies (3)

Hello,

I'd just like to thank those of you who wrote in regard to my
post. I had been somewhat worried that my posts were over long,
and, being filled as they were with the witterings of an
inexperienced male, might have been viewed with either scorn or
derision. I can't tell you how happy I was to find the opposite
to be the case, and again have to thank Ms. Christine and David
for having built such a welcoming community.

I have to admit though, the response I've read and re-read has
been, and I'll hope you forgive me for this (though you won't be
overly surprised I'm sure), Ms. Christine's, so I'd just like to
comment on a few points of hers if I may.

Christine wrote:

>A very nice hat you threw in too :-) The compliments were a
>welcome bonus as well.

I am honoured that you liked my posts, they were put in, after
all, in an effort to obey your good self, and I am happy that
they appear to have achieved their end. As for the compliments,
I only wish I had the eloquence to do you justice.

>in recognition of your enthusiasm I've just posted the next
>episode. I'm fairly sure you'll like it, it is probably my
>favourite episode... I had the giggles as I concocted it. I
>just love how wicked I was being.

Thank you so much. I LOVED it - though, for me, it ended just
before it got really interesting. As places to end a chapter go,
that was just mean! To raise a lump in men's throats (and pants)
and leave them hanging, but then, what am I talking about,
that's exactly how we should be left, gagging at the mercy of a
dominant lady's whims (but please, tell me your story and
description of his humiliation beneath her with that gag doesn't
end there!).

As for giggling and feeling wicked as you wrote it, the very
FACT that the story came from your mind, along with the content,
I have to admit, has rather a different effect on me - and with
regards to your wickedness, it's a wickedness that leaves men
like me somewhat weak at the knees.... so please, don't ever
stop ;-)

>would you be as happy if she were to take lovers and not want
>to use you for that service (oral cleanup) She might like the
>freedom to take lovers, I know I did. But she may not want to
>have that freedom imposed upon by your fantasies

Firstly, I love that everything I've fantasised about, you've
done for real. Secondly, you ask whether I would be as happy if
it were all about her rather than my fantasies. The answer, I
think, is yes.

I view, as indeed you do, the task of being ordered to lap clean
my owner's pussy after she has enjoyed a lover as a privilege
that I would be lucky to receive. What really drives my desire
in this however, is the expression of her power over me. That
she takes lovers because she wants them is the point. It is not
that I enjoy that she takes them, or need to see it necessarily,
it is the fact that she enjoys it, doing exactly what she wants,
whenever she wants, indulging herself and exerting an absolute
power over me with no regard to my feelings or desires - that is
the element that elevates her to her all powerful position in
the relationship.

Should she choose, as in my fantasy, to rub my face in it, this
is just another expression of her total freedom and power and
would drive me further into acceptance of my subjugation beneath
her metaphorical heel.

In the same vein, with regard to climbing into Ms Christine's
bathtub, it is the expression of her power that would send me
into what I have seen called subspace. The fact that because she
felt like it, a woman was ordering me to open my mouth beneath
her, and accept that in her world, I am no more than her toilet,
would utterly overwhelm me.

So it becomes a little more complex - yes, it would be a
punishment, and it is the extreme nature of the punishment that
makes it so potent - the very order, and the power being wielded
would drive me into a state of total submission, which, at the
same time, would be about as exciting to me sexually as it is
possible to be. So as I kneeled or lay to order, opened my
mouth, and accepted my humiliation and total subjugation beneath
her, drinking my mistress' urine as commanded, I would find
myself becoming ever more her slave.

With each drop my pride would dissolve as I fell deeper and
deeper under her control, giving myself up to her absolute power
over me, sinking ever further beneath her spell. Sorry if that's
all a bit extreme and confused, but it is honest.

As to being broken by a woman, in my mind I would be broken to
her and her alone, and remain to all others (and to her when she
desired it) a man. I am in life, a reasonably successful, (I
like to think) vaguely intelligent man. I am 6'2" tall, strong,
and have many friends (don't get me wrong, I'm not perfect, I
need to lose weight, I could be less lazy etc., etc.).

My submission to a woman would be in deference to her strength,
power and character, and I hope would therefore mean more to
her, knowing that what to the world in general is a strong man,
in private is a wimp that crawls before her, falls to his knees
at the click of her fingers, and lives under her total rule as
possession and plaything.

I found the description of your processes when making the films
really interesting. I will watch them again with interest now
that I have a little more insight into the process. I will also
continue to watch them with a hell of a lot of enjoyment now
that I know the scenes were at your leisure and according to
your whim, knowing that the action was real, and I am in fact
watching a truly dominant woman taking her pleasures raises the
films to a whole new level.

And finally...

>The length was fine, and you were totally coherent. Just the
>way I like my men, before I reduce them to stuttering wimps..
>;-)

OK - once I get over the feeling in the pit of my stomach
whenever I read THAT sentence, can I just say that the elegance
of making a statement, achieving an end, and proving a point in
a single sentence is just staggering.

Apologies once again for the length of my ramblings - oh to have
your perfect, headspinning brevity!

Your stuttering wimp

FF

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Hello fem fan,

you wrote:

>this is my first post

And you are off to a good start. Keep it up.

>I felt it was my duty as a sub male to answer the call of a
>superior woman and throw my hat into the ring

A very nice hat you threw in too :-) The compliments were a
welcome bonus as well.

>the latest instalments of The Bank Manager's Cupboard have
>been mind blowing - Ms Christine, you're an amazing author!

Thank you fem fan, and in recognition of your enthusiasm I've
just posted the next episode. I'm fairly sure you'll like it, it
is probably my favourite episode of the story. I had the giggles
as I concocted it. And I smiled at my naughtiness as I re-read
it while posting it. I just love how wicked I was being.

>knowing that the Yin to my Yang is out there.

She is out there somewhere. But as I'm sure you know, she will
not be like any of my fictional characters, which let's face it
are a bit OTT. Although it's possible they'll give her a giggle
too if you share your favourite stories with her.

>I would expect her to have (should she wish) a kennel, stable,
>or harem of males that are enslaved and broken beneath her
>heel, serving her in any way she desires - maybe even
>specialising in different areas according to her desires,
>serving as her cleaners, shoppers, manicurists, pedicurists,
>butlers, even as her toilet, toilet paper, oral slaves, and
>lovers.

Wonderful in fantasy. My experience of submissive men leads me
to believe that they are generally high maintenance individuals.
I doubt I'd have the emotional capacity to manage a stable
myself. So you might find that your ideal woman will be, like
me, happy with the devoted service of one male.

>should she have lovers, I would count myself lucky to be
>allowed to serve her by cleaning up after them with my
>tongue...

Yes. You would indeed be lucky were such a privilege afforded to
you. But would you be as happy if she were to take lovers and
not want to use you for that service? She might like the freedom
to take lovers, I know I did. But she may not want to have that
freedom imposed upon by your fantasies.

>In my fantasies I would be broken and degraded by my mistress

You are very much like my David in your fantasies, and it's
fortunate that you recognise that reality will probably not be
like that. Like David you may find your Mistress is willing to
indulge you in that illusion at least some of the time. But in
truth a broken male is not much use to a woman.

Many of us like a strong male companion who is willing to submit
when we want him too.

>my pent up sexual desire became an overwhelming wave that ever
>increased her power and hold over me.

That part of your fantasy is both achievable and fun. I think
you'll find quite a few women would like the male "pent up and
panting with desire" element of this lifestyle, once they
realise that it doesn't have to also mean the man pestering for
attention and his own gratification.

>I ordered, I believe, every video available from Christine and
>David

There are only five, so if you have five you have them all.

>While I have to admit that on the PC Screen the videos were a
>little dark and at times hard to make out, when I put them onto
>the TV, they were fine. In terms of content however - they were
>p-h-e-n-o-m-e-n-a-l !

It's probably because we go to such lengths on the video
description page to make it clear that the quality of
reproduction is less than perfect, that we don't get negative
feedback. Fortunately we bought a card for the PC when they
first came out, and I converted the old tapes to digital before
the video tapes became totally unwatchable.

We agree with you, we've rented a lot of videos in our time, and
in terms of content we've never see anything as realistic or
enjoyable as the videos we made ourselves. I think the reason
for that is that nobody else is likely to have followed the same
somewhat accidental procedure I explain below.

>I loved watching the stories play out, the action in them was
>mind blowing

Most of the "action" as you put it was filmed spontaneously when
I was in the mood for playing to camera. The action wasn't
filmed for the purpose of making a commercial video, but just
for our pleasure at recording our fun.

Back when we bought our video camera, they were quite new, and
looked like something a TV station might use, especially when it
was sat on one's shoulder. Such a big camera in the corner of
the room might tend to ruin an atmosphere.

So I'd tell David how and where I wanted the video camera set
up, atop a table, or on a dressing table in the bedroom for
example, and all I had to do was turn it on when I felt like
filming something kinky that we were doing as we went about or
"normal" lives. The camera might sit there for a few days until
I was next in the mood for playing.

Often the result was taped over because what came out on the
recording was not as good as we'd like and not even worth
keeping.

When we liked the result enough, we'd copy it on to our "to
keep" tapes. It was when we were discussing how awful the movies
we rented were, that we tossed around the idea of selling our
own. David felt that we had to give them a story line in order
to sell them. So I gave him the task of writing the ideas for
link scenes which would stitch the action together in a story
which would be at least a little bit credible. Or sound like
something we could sell as a "film".

>I could feel a reality to proceedings that you don't tend to
>get elsewhere.

That may be because you end up seeing a mix of fact and fiction,
and because we are having fun. Although even the fiction scenes
only got filmed at my leisure, when I was in the mood for them,
and often I changed the story on the fly to suit my mood or
because I didn't like what David had scripted. So that tended to
provoke a reality because often David doesn't know what is going
to happen next, and sometimes nor do I :-)

The reality is perhaps also what you describe as the "action"
sequences. The story lines are of course not very close to
reality at all.

>if Ms Christine ever ordered me into her bathtub... I'd be
>there in a shot!

Bear in mind it's more fun for some women if you at least look
like it's a bit of a punishment. :-)

>my humble apologies for the length, and rambling of my own
>email Ms Christine!

The length was fine, and you were totally coherent. Just the way
I like my men, before I reduce them to stuttering wimps.. ;-)

sincerely,
Christine at Ms-Christine.com

See Christine and David on video

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