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View Thread started on February 1, 2010 2:23 AM| Replies (1)

We have a device from chastity heaven (we got it when it was
mature metal actually) he was very helpful and did some free
adjustments to the device. I find it one of the best ones used
to date.

There have been some issues (slight pinching and twisting) all
and all it is a good device and good service. They shortened the
shaft of the device thinking that's what caused the twisting...
it still does, but being in Canada we did not want to spend more
money sending it back yet again.

Being a little too short i find it painful after continuous
erections (not sure if this if a remnant of my hernia surgery or
something else). I find it painful to sleep in and my wife
usually takes it off for the night. We have used the cb devices
and the birdlocked and prefer this one.

View Thread started on November 17, 2009 1:11 AM| Replies (4)

Christine,

I love the way you have david hump the toilet. I will use your
position in the future.

Last week after my little one had done his chores I sent him to
the Goodwill to buy the frilliest pair of used panties he could
find. Then he had to stand in line holding them in plain sight.
After he paid I told him to refuse the bag and wear them out of
the store around his neck like a necklace. When he got home I
made him kneel in front of me a masturbate into the used
panties!

Danielle

View Thread started on December 28, 2009 10:11 PM| Replies (5)

Hello,

I wanted to let everyone know how great it has been to order
from Chastity Heaven so far. I am waiting for my modified
"Mistress" style cb to arrive for my love. The customer service
is amazing, in fact that's the only reason I wanted to post this
before I even got the device.

Chastity Heaven offers a lot of modifications and additions to
all of their styles. Just ask them. They give you very honest
advice, which doesn't usually happen these days.

We own a CB 6000 right now and we have been very disappointed
with it. It actually snapped off while he was sleeping on his
back almost immediately. Very dangerous, and it was never
comfortable enough for him to wear for any length of time.

I stumbled upon Chastity Heaven looking for a safer, cleaner and
more durable device for him to wear 24/7. Their customer service
and customizable designs sold me, and I am not an easy girl to
please by any means... I can't wait for it to arrive!

View Thread started on January 15, 2010 10:26 PM| Replies (2)

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View Thread started on September 20, 2009 12:19 AM| Replies (9)

Christine wrote:

>humiliating men. I like to have my doggy slave hump something
>without using his "front paws"

Danielle wrote:

>The coffee table is a nice thing to have our worthless doggies
>hump

I smile, because the coffee table was exactly what my Lady-Owner
regularly ordered me to hump. However, She sat on the opposite
side of the table and offered Her feet as something warm to work
at. After i came, she forced me to lick each drop of the mess
which i had created. After this final service, i had to get
dressed and go home.

I wish She were still around.

View Thread started on December 28, 2009 10:11 PM| Replies (5)

Fair enough observation Lady O, but let me answer that he
redesigned our simple website and we gave him a device as
partial payment. Once we were happy with his redesign, we sent
it to him. At that point, we had/have no more "leverage" with
him to ensure a good review, and if you read it carefully, I
think you'll agree that he was honest and had some minor
negatives and that the review "rings" true.

He was quite skeptical that our devices were as good as I told
him, and I believe he states that in his review. "Aarkey" is a
blogger who found us just after we went public with
ChastityHeaven and offered to take our simple website a little
more professional for a freebie device.

We never tried to hide that fact, and if there were a conflict
of interest, maybe we would have hidden that fact. That is the
extent of the relationship, and the reason I am publicly asking
other DOMestic readers to review our device and our devices is
to alleviate doubts about us both here as well as on
orgasmdenial and anywhere else for that matter...

(SORRY Ms Christine, I really didn't mean to leave you out, I
thought that it was a "given" that DOMestic readers would post
here)

This should demonstrate our desire to be open and accommodating
to public reviews, no one is asking you to take Aarkey's review
as "true" but to see it along other reviews in order to be able
to make up your own mind with multiple inputs from different
readers.

We feel the best advertising is word of mouth, and after a few
months of excellent feedback from dozens of customers, we
thought it wise to give a little "nudge" to some of them here,
knowing we have DOMestic readers as customers.

Sure, we've had some problems along the way, but every time
there was a problem, we have done our best to make our customers
happy and to the best of our knowledge, we have done so every
time. We are sincere and dedicated to the chastity lifestyle,
and we want every customer to experience why we call ourselves
chastity "heaven" :-)

We have customers with just about every competitors devices and
they say we're the most comfortable. We sold about a dozen
devices last week and they have all shipped by today except for
one, and that was ordered late in the week, so we strive for
quick shipping and happy customers. We guarantee to ship within
2 weeks of the order and are usually much quicker.

That being said, everyone is not going to go on and on raving
about us and there have been bumps in the road, but we do our
best, and we're there for you after we have your money too. I'm
hoping we can get some acknowledgement of that fact, especially
if there are any readers here who did get a device that needed
to be adjusted after you received it.

These are our best reviews because we already had their money
and had nothing more to gain financially from them. But we
always take care to follow through on customer service in order
to create a network of customers who are happy to recommend us.
That's what I'm here to encourage, openly and honestly, and we
admire the skeptics and want to win them over too :-)

Like "aarkey", "orgasmdenial" found us and approached us and
asked if they could obtain a device in order to review it on
their site. Yes, they got a "freebie" and we're not hiding that
fact, but think about it, once it's in their hands, like with
aarkey, we have no leverage to get them to say anything they
don't want to say.

We're not perfect, but we do try hard and we want to be here for
years to come. That's why we're encouraging our customers to
help spread the word about us, ESPECIALLY ones who have had some
problems or bumps in the road, so they can tell about our
service in handling those bumps. I invite any questions here
publicly and I will answer them all to the best of my ability.
Fair enough? Thanks for both your skepticism as well as your
consideration :-)

I'm sure there will be some negatives along the way, but I know
they will be minor in the scheme of things. We're opening
ourselves up to public scrutiny and I don't know what more we
can do except to let the free flow of information to make or
break us.

Thanks again!

ChastityHeaven.com

View Thread started on November 17, 2009 1:11 AM| Replies (4)

Hello,

Lady O wrote:

>conflict of interest?

My suggestion just posted a moment ago at:-

http://u4ds.com/2010/01/chastity_heaven_reviews_and_pr.shtml#c007346

is that it would be a good idea to read some experiences of
DOMestic readers right here on the the DOMestic blog. Perhaps
that would be helpful as well as interesting for all?

sincerely,
Christine at Ms-Christine.com

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http://u4ds.com/password

View Thread started on November 17, 2009 1:11 AM| Replies (4)

Hello,

slaveboy - chastityheaven wrote:

>I am inviting any DOMestic readers who are also customers of
>ChastityHeaven to go to the above blog and write about your
>experience dealing with us and wearing our devices.

And I'm also inviting any DOMestic readers who are also
customers of ChastityHeaven to also post their experiences here
in response to this post. By all means post elsewhere, but if
you heard about the device on DOMestic, then it would seem fair
to share your experiences with other DOMestic readers.

>We hope some DOMestic readers who are also customers will put
>their 2 cents in at the "orgasmdenial blog"

I don't have the time to read other blogs myself, and I for one
would be happy to read of the experiences of DOMestic readers
with these or any such devices right here. I'm sure I'm not
alone in this.

sincerely,
Christine at Ms-Christine.com

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View Thread started on January 15, 2010 10:26 PM| Replies (2)

I find it a little disturbing that Aarkey reviewed the device
and ALSO designed their website... conflict of interest?

View Thread started on November 17, 2009 1:11 AM| Replies (4)

Hello,

Danielle wrote:

>I lubed the toilet, cuffed his hands behind his back, turned
>out the lights, closed the door, made him hump the toilet and
>bark until he came in the toilet

Wicked! I Love it.

As I've probably discussed here in the past, but have certainly
discussed in the FD software, one variation I use is to make
David hump the toilet while I watch. I tell him to lay on his
back, wrap his legs around the toilet, and hump his body upwards
against the cold ceramic base.

Sat on the toilet seat myself I'm in an ideal position to
verbally humiliate him as he attempts to get some satisfaction.
It's quite difficult for him to achieve a "spurt" humping
against something so cold! Especially in that awkward position.
So I might get bored and he'll go without.

But, if I want to ensure he does 'spurt' I only have to sit
fully dressed on the toilet seat and spread my legs either side
of him. Then he can be told to try and look up my skirt as he
does it.

Then I only have to say something like "You like looking up
women's skirts don't you wanker", and that always does the
trick.

sincerely, Christine

The Fem Dom Training Software.
Advises on how best to train your husband/lover.
http://www.mschristine.com/program.shtml

View Thread started on December 28, 2009 10:11 PM| Replies (5)

Chastity Heaven reviews and prices

View Thread started on October 17, 2009 12:33 AM| Replies (8)

The coffee table is a nice thing to have our worthless doggies
hump. Here is another idea that my slave seemed to find rather
humiliating. Once I lubed the toilet, cuffed his hands behind
his back, turned out the lights, closed the door, made him hump
the toilet and bark until he came in the toilet. He was barking
for sometime in order to get enough friction! LOL

Danielle

View Thread started on December 28, 2009 10:11 PM| Replies (5)

Hello,

Pietro Bianchi wrote:

>I guess it depends on how much urine is drunk and for how long. I
>reasonably think there are no risks drinking small amounts every
>now and then, but I strongly doubt it to be healthy when it comes
>to drinking only urine for days.

I agree, almost completely. I think that is in essence what I said in
my own comment/post at:-

http://u4ds.com/2009/12/is_piss_drinking_harmful.shtml#c007265

But Pietro has said it more succinctly than me.

Thanks Pietro.

However, I also stated in my post that:-

"Urine is a very useful growth medium, and if stored for any
length of time exposed to the air it may become contaminated
with bacteria which would grow well in such a medium. So consume
it immediately and fresh from the source to minimise the risk of
contamination."

And that last point should be emphasised, because even small
quantities that have become contaminated could contain very
harmful and virulent bacteria.

As I said before:-

The wise individual would take the precaution of drinking large
quantities of water before and after consuming urine to dilute
the risks and flush the system.

I prefer urinating directly upon David's face. It feels a lot
more powerful than handing him a glass. The small quantity he
inevitably consumes while undergoing the humiliation of me
urinating all over his face is a miniscule risk.

sincerely,
Christine

You can see me urinating on David if you download the "Waters of
the Queen" video at:- http://www.mschristine.com/queenp.shtml

View Thread started on December 22, 2009 5:45 AM| Replies (5)

Is piss drinking harmful?

Urine is a waste product. The fact that small amounts of
"valuable" molecules are found in urine does not change this
fact. Most of the soluble waste from the body finds it's way out
of the body via urine. In fact when the kidneys do not eliminate
the waste properly we speak of renal failure, a serious disease.
How could drinking urine, especially drinking only urine for
days, be "safe"?

Drinking urine means introducing into the body the waste from
the body of another person. The "drinker" has then to eliminate
both his/her own waste AND the waste of the other person. This
means double work for the kidneys. I am not aware of any
scientific research about the possible dangers of such a
practice (I doubt there is any). It is therefore difficult to
say what and how much danger there is drinking urine.

I guess it depends on how much urine is drunk and for how long.
I reasonably think there are no risks drinking small amounts
every now and then, but I strongly doubt it to be healthy when
it comes to drinking only urine for days.

Stating that "drinking urine is safe" is misleading, since we
don't know. The fact that some people have done it and have not
had any consequence is not enough to say that it is not risky.
We all know people who have smoked for years and have not had
any problem from that. Would it not be more honest to say that
we simply don't know?

View Thread started on December 22, 2009 5:45 AM| Replies (5)

Hello,

Danielle wrote:

>When he got home I made him jerk off onto a newspaper like a
>dog while I watched.

Lovely! Watching them make such fools of themselves.

I do love doggy games as a way of humiliating men. I like to
have my doggy slave hump something without using his "front
paws" to touch himself. It's usually a low footstool taking the
place of a small female dog, but sometimes I have him actually
mount the coffee table in front of me as though he were trying
to impregnate a much bigger "bitch".

It's best to find a way to avoid a mess, unless you plan on
having him lick it up, because male doggies do tend to spurt all
over the place. The newspaper is a nice touch Danielle. We
wouldn't want doggies to make a nasty mess on the furniture
would we? :-)

sincerely,
Christine

The Fem Dom Training Software.
Advises on how best to train your husband/lover.
http://www.mschristine.com/program.shtml

View Thread started on December 28, 2009 10:11 PM| Replies (5)

Hello You Two..... It's Boxing Day, take some time off and go
Shopping... lol... Although folks here in America wouldn't know
what I'm talking about....

David {and his submissive Bernice who has accepted a
training collar as we enter a LTR}.

View Thread started on December 26, 2009 10:29 PM| Replies (1)

I consider myself one of the luckiest male slaves on the planet.
I have had the wonderful opportunity to drink from many Dommes
in my lifetime. I have never had any ill effects from my
imbibing of the golden nectar.

Maybe I've been lucky but my experiences have all been positive
whether directly from the source or from a glass or bottle.
I've had nectar that was stored in a refrigerator for periods of
time also.

I do not pretend to advise everyone based on my experiences but
I did want to chime in on this subject since it is so near and
dear to me. I am so glad to have this forum to do so.

slave gene

http://www.clubfemnefl.com

View Thread started on December 22, 2009 5:45 AM| Replies (5)

Hello,

VeryCurious wrote:

>I have been a reader of DOMestic for years, but I've never
>contributed.

You are off to a good start, thanks for an interesting list of
ideas. I think there are many newbie dominants reading DOMestic
who will find such lists a useful source of ideas that may not
have occurred to them.

Don't mind the negative comments from any fem-dom purists who it
seems to me may not have read your introductory paragraph and
instead concentrated on responding to the "list".

I know that when I first explained my fantasies to Christine
(some 30 years ago now) that she was puzzled about what I meant
by "if you do decide to let me orgasm then you can make it as
cruel as you like" - and she wanted me to suggest some ways in
which she could do that. Being "cruel" did not come naturally to
her.

>I've always been turned on reading about female domination. My
>wife enjoys being both submissive (I believe she prefers this
>role) and dominant.

You believe she prefers to be submissive? Have you asked her?
And of course, there is the question of which role you prefer,
many "switches" have a preference in one particular direction.

It's possible that she only prefers the submissive role because
she is uncertain about what to do when she is dominant. But if
she really does prefer submission, do you indulge her fantasies
too?

>We have only role-played for about a year and she gets nervous
>when faced with having to try new things.

It's natural to fear the unknown. And of course it's potentially
worrying for the partner of a submissive, not knowing how to end
a role-playing scenario once it's started. This can result in
deciding not to start at all. So your list may help her. But I
think talking about your fantasies - what turns you both on, and
why, with an emphasis on "both of you" can only help to clear
the fog.

>It really gets me turned on when she controls how/when/if I
>have an orgasm, so I sent her a list of things to try.

I hope this was a list she requested. It can be intimidating for
a partner to receive such a long list of things that turn you on
and they may see it as demanding, or a "do me" list.

But if a "sharing fantasies" discussion results in an agreement
to write such things down and share them, then that can be
helpful.

>I'm sharing the list with the group in the hopes that some
>readers will try some new things with their submissives.

Thanks for your list, it is most welcome. I think that one
advantage of such sharing is that other partners of submissives
can pick a few ideas from DOMestic that they fancy trying for
themselves without feeling there is any pressure from their own
spouse.

To that end you might encourage your own partner to read
DOMestic herself.

sincerely,
David.

Download "Prickteasing" by David at
http://www.mschristine.com/manual.shtml

View Thread started on December 15, 2009 3:01 PM| Replies (6)

Hello,

judy wrote:

>My sub lickslave seems to get aroused when I yell at him and am
>angry at him at times. Why would he get aroused by that?

I think there are many possibilities, and you might want to
explore those by discussing it with him. Just ask him why he
thinks your anger turns him on. It's possible that it reminds
him of some formative experience, or it might be that when you
are angry he finds the idea of punishment more credible and
exciting than in so called play situations.

I know we've discussed anger here on many occasions, and I found
so many references to it when I searched the DOMestic member's
site, that I couldn't list them all here.

What I think may be a common motivation for a submissive
becoming aroused at his mistress being angry, may be the concept
of "real punishment".

So I restricted the search of the DOMestic member's area to
"real punishment angry" so as to come up with something that
might shed light on your question of "why" and I quickly came up
with an article I wrote many years ago called "Real punishment
hurts the ones we love" at:-

http://www.mschristine.com/DOMestic/david24.htm

I'll repeat and re-edit the relevant parts of it here...

If I imagine for a moment the little boy in tears when his
mother slaps his legs and tells him off, I realise that why he
is crying is not totally about the physical pain. He is crying
because he is emotionally hurt by his mother's anger.

What we (I think I'm including most or all of us into dom-sub)
do is the opposite. We are sharing. We want to know that our
partner, dom or sub, is enjoying it. So some of us enjoy 'play
anger' from our dominants.

For some of us into "real punishment" a kind of magic occurs
when we as subs watch the dom play act the anger in a convincing
way. So convincing that we nearly believe it, but not quite
convincing enough that we fall in to the trap of really
believing we have upset them.

Over thirty years ago, in an earlier marriage, as a young twenty
year old man, I experienced a "non playful" spanking, shortly
followed by a lashing with a riding crop.

The circumstances were as follows,

We were at a social function associated with my wife's work. I
was one of the few men there. Most of the guests were sales-
women akin to my wife. I had a ball, dancing with them all. At
first my wife took it all in good spirits, pleased that I was
getting on so well with her friends. But either I pushed it too
far, or she became jealous. I don't honestly know which.

We had fem-dom played games at home for very brief periods. But
I had never experienced anything like this. In the car driving
home she made it very clear how angry she was and said little
else. When we entered the kitchen door she literally pushed me
across the kitchen table and ripped at my trousers and laid into
my backside.

I loved it.

My initial resistance, which was at best half hearted soon
abated. She gave me a hiding and then fetched the riding crop
which I had previously purchased for play. I was lectured
throughout and told never to behave that way again.

It was fantastic.

Why?

My best guess is that I wanted or enjoyed her proving that she
loved me. Her jealousy which was always a problem in our
marriage was finally expressed in a way which knitted with my
own sexual fantasies.

That marriage ended a few years later but the non-playful anger
and consequent arousal experience has never been repeated.
Although Christine can act angrily in our role-pay which is
often very arousing (but deep down I know it's play).

Nowadays I would be hurt by the idea that I had done anything to
make my partner really angry, and quite simply I almost never do
so, but the concept of play anger is something we've used
frequently and Christine and I have successfully weaved this
into our role-playing lifestyle by treading carefully and
discussing what things we both enjoy.

sincerely,
David

Download "Games People Play" by David at
http://www.mschristine.com/manual.shtml

View Thread started on December 20, 2009 8:39 PM| Replies (3)

judy wrote:

>My sub lickslave seems to get aroused when I yell at him and
>am angry at him at times. Why would he get aroused by that?
>Can anyone comment to me about this?

I have experienced this....

I had met and became friends with a female dominant, who was
less experienced than appearances, and after several meetings we
met with a view to playing. She had indicated she liked to use a
whip hard. She also mentioned in passing that she had an anger
problem, and I was surprised, as by appearances, butter wouldn't
melt in her mouth.

Well, later in the evening she became angry for little apparent
reason and it escalated to a rage of anger.

She angrily threatened to put me in my stocks and give me an
extreme whipping and leave me there all night.

I had to pull back and refuse, as in her state, it breached all
safe, sane and consensual parameters.

I stuck to my guns and never played with her, because I felt it
was unsafe, but it was a tremendous turn on for me.

I don't like making anyone truly angry, and I was quite
surprised by my arousal.

I think because to submit to her (in her state of anger) would
have been a complete and total submission with no way out, when
it was clear it was going to go way past any safeword levels.

This in itself has a certain appeal, and I have lived in a
relationship where safewords were there, but seldom (if ever)
used, and then only if there was some sort of issue (such as
cramp or restraints cutting off circulation).... you just took
what punishment was decided on.

This level of trust takes a considerable amount of time to
build.

My passing comment is that if your slave is turned on by your
anger, to use it on your slave, but not at the time of the
actual anger. Take time to find your equilibrium and later,
during the session, recall the events that made you angry and
act out your anger, without really being truly angry. The effect
will be the same for your slave, and for his correction, but
it's a safer option.

"O"

View Thread started on December 20, 2009 8:39 PM| Replies (3)

I am in agreement with some of the other posters. It comes across
as very much centred on what you want, not what you can be to
her to bring out the dominant in her. If she does what you like in
this fashion, even if it is in a top role, aren't you the one
still in charge, not her?

Everybody is different of course and if it works for you then
great. But if my boy would present me with a shopping list like
yours, it would be a turn off for me.

Shadowlady

View Thread started on December 15, 2009 3:01 PM| Replies (6)

Well, this is all about you isn't it? Never mind about your
orgasms, how about finding out how She would like to cum!

View Thread started on December 15, 2009 3:01 PM| Replies (6)

Hello,

"anwar" wrote:

>Hi, we are new to this forum.

Welcome. I'm sure you'll find the help you are seeking here,
feel free to ask more questions.

>We want to know if piss drinking is harmful in the long term.
>-snip- she forces me to drink her piss and no water

Your "no water" comment is the one I notice and this flashes a
warning light for me, as this is one area of risk. You should
drink plenty of water as well.

Fresh urine drunk directly from the source is not harmful in
principle, providing the urine is from a healthy individual. All
body fluids are dangerous if the fluids are from people who are
unwell. So, in practice what the urine might contain could be
harmful to you, and should be treated with respect and caution.

Even a healthy lady may be taking some medication, hormones, the
birth control pill, and any of these could pass a residue on to
you. So the wise individual would take the precaution of
drinking large quantities of water before and after consuming
urine to dilute the risks and flush the system.

Assuming you are both in excellent health and that she is not
taking medication I would advise your lady to take the
precaution of drinking plenty of water herself to dilute her own
urine, and I would advise her to order you to consume at least
one glass of water (minimum!) for every glass of fresh urine she
makes you consume.

Urine is a very useful growth medium, and if stored for any
length of time exposed to the air it may become contaminated
with bacteria which would grow well in such a medium. So consume
it immediately and fresh from the source to minimise the risk of
contamination.

Personally I prefer urinating directly upon David's face. It
feels a lot more powerful than handing him a glass. The small
quantity he inevitably consumes while undergoing the humiliation
of me urinating all over his face is a miniscule risk.

Hope this helps.

sincerely,
Christine

You can see me urinating on David if you download the "Waters of
the Queen" video at:- http://www.mschristine.com/queenp.shtml

View Thread started on December 22, 2009 5:45 AM| Replies (5)

VeryCurious wrote:

>gets me turned on when she controls how/when/if I have an
>orgasm, so I sent her a list of things to try.

Looks like you are the natural dom in the relationship, as every
one of your list items is a different way of having you cum in
your ways.

My Mistress chooses when (maybe once a week, if I am lucky) and
how I will come. I have been allowed to be inside of her 3-4
times in the past year. I would not dare to make a suggestion on
how I would like it, as our relationship is all about my
Mistress Wife, and not about me.

I do believe Mistress allows me the frequency of orgasms she
does because of her feelings towards her husband and not her
slave.

View Thread started on December 15, 2009 3:01 PM| Replies (6)

Here's one we use quite a bit. I am in chastity and my wife lets
me out after bringing her to orgasm orally. I then get in
position to mount her. She takes my member in her hands and
depending on her mood she either lets me in or uses the tip of
my penis as a tool on her clitoris until she comes looking at me
in the eyes the whole time. I almost come every time with just
that small contact, but never quite get there, then its back
into chastity. Either that or a specified number of strokes 10-
20 if I come. Back in I go if I don't. Same delightfully
maddening.

jboy

View Thread started on December 15, 2009 3:01 PM| Replies (6)

Drinking your wife's pee will not be harmful to you as long as
she is in good health. I have done this thousands of times over
the years, and have not had any problems.

View Thread started on December 22, 2009 5:45 AM| Replies (5)

VeryCurious,

Your list is a great list of what you would like your wife to do
to you.

Perhaps your wife will want to please you one day by making you
do some of these things.

But if she is "making you" do something to please you, then it
is hard to call this domination.

A more interesting list (for me) would be what SHE might like to
happen when you submit to her. If you find things that she
wants, that make her feel relaxed and comfortable about having
you under her power, and that she enjoys, then she is likely to
want to be in charge more often.

As you are in a loving relationship, she will probably want to
do a few things to please you as well, so you might not miss out
on your fantasies.

But the starting point is HER feeling that she really is in
charge.

When I'm with a partner I never ejaculate unless my partner
wishes, and I do this how she wishes.

I feel that she is in charge when she does not let me cum.

And she enjoys that I remain horny because she has left me
charged up.

I feel that she is in charge when she makes me cum.

And she enjoys me doing this when and how she says, the feeling
of her power of making me do this, and that my energy is then
low.

Even a non-dominant woman can enjoy having the power to say when
and how her man may cum.

The how is very rarely as exciting as your list, but the fact
that my partner enjoys her power, and the how and when is what
she wants, is very powerful and fun for both of us.

http://Devotionalsex.com

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Sounds a little like he is testing Your control. If You are
angry and want to keep the upper hand, send him away calmly
being sure he knows how disappointed You are.

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Hello,

On 1 Dec 2009 Christine wrote:

>We have now arranged credit card processing with Verotel
>TicketsClub

And we can now confirm that we have finished altering all our
order pages a few days ago. So everything is now working with
all the major credit and charge cards. Please let me know if
there is anything you find that we've missed.

One benefit of the change is that Verotel allow us to process
with JCB, Visa and Mastercard for instant video downloads. So
I've created new "tiny screen" download versions of our videos
which are now also available using Amex and Diners.

You can see actual size screenshots of all five new "tiny
screen" download versions at:-

http://u4ds.com/video.html

but here is one of my favourite memories of being "Queened" by
Christine from "Stiletto"...

Those who would still like to have a CD or DVD version can now
instantly download the video and for and extra $10 get the CD or
DVD as well. The best of both worlds.

sincerely,
David at Ms-Christine.com

See Christine and David on video.
http://u4ds.com/video.html

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